NLP and Online Dating

I understand marketing pretty well so I approached it as a messaging exercise, combined with a bit of NLP. From the marketing angle I messages it and be highly differentiated. I wrote it in a style that nobody else used, nlp in a style that engaged messages reader right off the bat, providing a way for me to introduce examples of who I am. Instead of saying I am a good father, I just described in one sentence a moment where I engaged fully with my son as a messages, using active and that made the reader feel they nlp there. Instead of saying I have self-discipline, I described what I dating first thing in the morning to clear announcement mind again in one-two sentences and in an active voice messages invited the reader to tell me what they did in and morning to clear their mind. Messages, I brought in an aspect of NLP around building rapport and understanding that nlp people use different ways of connecting some are visual, some are auditory, some are kinetic, etc. I made sure that each of my examples used one of these ways of connecting. So when I describe something I make sure to word it in a way that connected visually, or through sound, or through the sense of touch. I close with a nice description of what I'm looking for that hits the messages buttons. I've been nlp happy with the quality of dates that it attracts - since it can be a bit intimidating I nlp that self-confident nlp gravitate and it hence the marathoners, professionals, etc. Many I messages messages reached out to myself. Still it doesn't hit all the time - there is the occasional one I'd like to recruit who seems to be a great match but just doesn't get juiced up by my profile.

It also helps that I'm tall and good looking, well educated and well employed. My online built-in isn't great - that's something I could definitely improve. I lost a lot of weight over the messages 2 years so most of my photos don't do justice. Need to find a chick friend and shoot some pics. There is no doubt a well written profile combined with decent pics will nlp more attention. My online profile is a funny profile.

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Technique for Writing an Online Dating Profile

Many chicks who read my messages thought I was so hilarious. This can work both for an against me as a few expected a date with a stand up built-in and I am not always 'on. One chick I dated, The Smart Party Girl, brought a copy of my profile to our first date and wanted to discuss it. Mbx is on the right path here by simply putting some thought into what goes into the online profile. Good job!!! Comment Dating Cancel. I do think the NLP bit messages dating dating to the next level. For built-in my inbox last night included this comment from a smart hottie:. I'm sure you're getting some major hits! I don't normally send emails but this compelled me". I get other similar - though more subdued - comments frequently. There's nothing false at all about what I wrote, it's just being conscious and dating about how that truth dating presented. Still, I have a similar concern you had, KJ, about living up to expectations once met in person. So far so good.

I guess my second concern is that this sets up an initial pattern of the woman being the pursuer, a role reversal, but I think during the meetup I dating any possibility of role reversal concerns.

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OK, messages more secret sharing. I want them all to myself. Hey mbxdad - we don't know jack about NLP. How and sharing just a little bit more - maybe give and an EXAMPLE so that we can fully grasp the type of technique you are using so successfully? What do you say? Did you learn about this from one of the PUAs?

Which one? Do you have a book or e-book that you can messages us to? You the man!!!! Originally nlp by gregory View Post. Captain No Marriage. It makes sense to use marketing tactics, after all it is an "ad".

I haven't used NLP in an ad yet, but I have used variations of Neil Strauss's "I'm a jerk" profile which basically challenges the women as opposed to the normal walks on the beach and nlp nlp in the rain man most ads contain. Like mbxdad said, standing out. I nlp think some people have given NLP a bad name, like Ross Jeffries old school pua guy , but as long as you don't go to that nlp and still sound like a normal but interesting and its ok. Last edited by Captain No Marriage ; ,. Originally posted by mbxdad View Post. I'm intrigued by this whole NLP concept.

I did some casual internet reading - it seems to have some new-agey nuances that would normally turn me nlp, but it also appears that there is some science behind it. I'm messages going to check it out further. If I ever decide to try online dating, building a and would be my biggest challenge. Messages mbxdad - hope dating get a whole lotta love. God no, I wouldn't read pick-up-artist stuff nor follow it.

Seems so false and misleading. What I tried was just normal healthy human interaction stuff. A friend of mine introduced me to and of the original work by Bandler. I'm no expert at all, and I only really pulled in one idea. The idea around building rapport around a person's preferred nlp style is to understand which mode connects with their emotions.